September is always the most beautiful time of the year in Newport. Many facets of summer slide easily into this month without missing a beat, but it is always clear in the crisp air — fall is on the way.
Capturing this exquisite weather and celebrating it with festive colors was my goal as I planned a book signing for dear friend, Lynne White. The fun twist? Happy Balinese and Indian umbrellas…accented with twinkling charms, tiny mirrors, and dangling capiz shells…were collected from friends and then placed throughout the garden.
The spirit of Lynne’s book, Giving and Gifts, was well reflected in the ambiance that greeted guests as they walked through the garden gates — convivial, sharing, uplifting, spirited. As this New Orleanian artfully expresses, “Giving and Gifts is designed to help you discover the sheer delight of giving — and in the process energizing yourself. Translating a generous thought or emotion into something tangible can become a beautiful habit with a marvelous ripple effect, turning others into givers themselves.” I’m scattering more of Lynne’s thoughts throughout this post, interspersed with scenes from the tea.
Too, too often we either don’t know how best to express gratitude or we hesitate because we weren’t sure what to give. Lynne’s answers are accompanied by personal stories, inspirational quotes, and advice on the power of giving.
Such a timely note…
“For Those Hurt by Flooding, Fire or Burglary…Replace their lost pictures, if possible, with framed duplicates provided by family and friends.”
“My overall goal is to awaken your own creative process. Try my ideas or reimagine them as you see it.”
“Business: Gift Giving at Work — As usual, the first step toward inspired giving is to put yourself in the shoes of whomever will get the gift. Start with the three P’s: practical, pragmatic, and purposeful.
“A Weighty Gift — Ask someone for their new business card and then sink it in Lucite for a paperweight.”
On the subject of thank you notes…
“What I know for sure: Words matter. and when they’re written and not just spoken, they last forever.” – Oprah Winfrey
One thought passed along caught my attention in its novelty and the ripple effect that it inspired. It did not include a tangible, physical gift but rather requested a simple act of others — on the anniversary of her husband’s death, one widow asks all her friends and acquaintances “to keep his memory alive today by doing a random act of kindness in his memory“. And signs it, “Thank you… love wins, Pennie.”
And do not miss the touching story of the penguin and “The Gift of a Stone” (page 135).
“At your next opportunity to give a gift, rise to the occasion and do something that says, ‘you matter, I care.'”
Thank you, dear Lynne, for introducing us to “the Art of Thoughtful Giving.”
Featured Image Credit, Nick Mele Photography.